By: Alec Capurso

Everyone has had that first job that introduced them to the world of the workplace. Whether Neurodivergent or not, you never forget your first position wherever you found employment. While it may seem insignificant now, that position has helped to find your footing in what environment makes you comfortable or uncomfortable. Whether you enjoyed that position or not isn’t relevant, because the experience of working for the first time is more than enough to get you going. I fondly remember my first job, where I first learned what it takes to have a position and work for it. It was satisfying, yet a bit intimidating and overwhelming as well. But, I look back on those days in recollection starting from my first job application.

        I really had no intention of getting a job when I was home from college over winter break in December, until my Mom forced me to at least apply for a position. I was stuck staring at a computer screen as I sent out application after application, bored out of my mind. However, I somehow managed to snag an interview with a large home improvement store surprisingly close to my house! I had applied for the position of lot associate where I had to put the shopping carts up that were left strangling in the parking lot. Also, I had to help deliver online orders to customers' cars, which meant that I had to carry very heavy materials to the trunks of customer’s cars. When I arrived for my interview, I didn’t really think much of it at first, because I only really cared about making money. Eventually I was hired and they put me on the schedule. It was very hard to adjust!

        At first, I was required to complete an online training course to prepare myself for the many job requirements and the code of conduct involved for a new employee. I had to spend many hours watching long informational videos and answering short questionnaires. I was also required to have an account on the corporate website. My long hours on the job entailed that I worked outside despite the weather, which included it all - heavy rain, blustering wind, immense cold. By the time I was finished, I was dead tired. The hardest part was being in a new environment, making it difficult for me to know how to adjust to the varying hours and the many tasks assigned. Yet, it was probably one of the most integral and enlightening experiences that I’ve ever had.

        Working at the store helped me to develop self-efficiency skills and how to balance my school and work hours. I’d also learned how to properly talk with customers and how to give them proper assistance. Before that point, I’d spent most of my time working at volunteer positions that didn’t pay, so to finally receive collateral for my efforts felt extremely gratifying. However, what I really gained from that seemingly small position was a whole lot more than just a steady wage. I had gained the wisdom and confidence to complete tasks that I never imagined myself doing or partaking in. From that moment on, I felt as though the world was my oyster and I could truly manage to make a living for myself. That sense of freedom and independence was one of the best feelings I had in a long time. And I don’t regret it.

So, while your first job may not be your favorite, it is an experience that stays with you for the rest of your life. It has prepared you for the many tasks you have to perform in order to possess proper work etiquette and how to manage my timing. Those on the spectrum who are nervous about getting their first job shouldn’t fear that change, because it will lead to you growing in both maturity and self-respect. Whether it’s paying or not, you should have the chance to see what it’s like to have a job and learn what you are comfortable with. After all, you never forget your first.